Family & Loved Ones

FAMILY & LOVED ONES2019-03-09T03:30:35+10:00

Loving an Addict

Loving someone in active addiction is hard work. The constant thinking of why did this happen, how did this happen and why can’t they just stop.

You can often feel alone, fearful, no one to talk to and a broad sense of hopelessness.

Anybody who loves an addict knows the frustration, pain, torment and the constant carnage that follows in their wake.

Loved ones of addicts become accustomed to disappointment and broken promises, and they also develop anxiety, high levels of stress and numerous other symptoms that only an addicted person themselves might be suffering. They can tiptoe around the addict like they are on eggshells waiting for the next disaster just hoping it will not cause too much more mental, physical and emotional pain.

Many loved ones of addicts can exist in a state of denial, pretending it’s not happening, providing constant soft landings for the addict and unwittingly through no fault of their own become more of an unhealthy enabling factor for the addict than the substance itself.
Paying off dealers, bad debts, retrieving goods from second-hand stores and so on. Loved ones can become victims themselves going through stages of denial, grief and even at times symptoms of Post Traumatic Stress.

It is challenging for the loved ones of an addict to know the difference between appropriate support and unhealthy enabling. Most parents only want what’s best for their children, and the same is for partners or friends of an addict.

The recovering addicts’ support network needs as much support as the person in recovery, if not more so. The stronger the support network, the stronger and more sustainable the recovery of the loved one will be.

It is essential that loved ones and family members get the necessary support they require during the entire process

Ocean provides loved ones with referrals to community support groups, professional organisations, health professionals, education, information and general support when it’s required. It can be tough to say “NO” to the addict in their lives, not pay the bills or dealers, not bail them out of trouble regularly and then try and get them to treatment. Which is why support is so vital to the entire process for both the loved one and the person in recovery.

It is crucial that the loved ones of addicts try and get on with their own lives and only offer the appropriate support when the time comes. Many addicts do get well, and recovery and families are reunited. The most important thing is never to give up hope and try and seek out the necessary support to help make those tough decisions.

Resources for Family Members & Loves Ones2019-03-09T03:40:17+10:00

Family Drug Support

(FDS) is a caring, non-religious organisation which provides non-judgmental, non-directive support and information for families and friends of drug and/or alcohol users across Australia. Since 1997, Family Drug Support has successfully provided programmes/services in this area.

Family Drug Support

Al-Anon Family Groups

Al‑Anon is a mutual support program for people whose lives have been affected by someone else’s drinking. By sharing common experiences and applying the Al-Anon principles, families and friends of alcoholics can bring positive changes to their individual situations, whether or not the alcoholic admits the existence of a drinking problem or seeks help.

Al-Anon Family Groups

Nar-Anon Family Groups

Nar-Anon Family Groups are self-help support groups for families and friends of compulsive drug users.  Members meet anonymously to gain an understanding of the user’s behaviour and how to cope with it. Sharing in the experiences of others can provide guidance in coping with day to day crises.

Nar-Anon Family Groups

Al-Anon WSO

This Facebook page provides information for anyone interested in the effects of alcoholism on the friends and families of problem drinkers.

Al-Anon WSO

Online Al-Anon

As the Internet itself rapidly grew in the past 20 years, members of Al-Anon Family Groups were included in the millions of people who went “online.” Many of those members have naturally gathered themselves together to fellowship and share their experience, strength, and hope.

Online Al-Anon

Step Chat

We welcome everyone whose life has been affected by alcoholism and addiction. If this is your first time here, please see How to Log On for step-by-step instructions for connecting to our chat rooms.

Step Chat

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